Too much complaints and worries have been in place to the point of insecurity when it comes to the degraded social morality, especially among the younger generation. Of course, such worry and criticism is completely grounded on looking at the series of manifestations in real social life. The causes are plenty, but the family factor, in which the example of fathers and mothers is a factor, plays a significant role in shaping the personality and morality of children until adulthood on stepping out into the society.
A harmonious family with all members connected in affection, responsibility, respect, and tolerance for each other must be a dream and a wish for anyone, especially fathers and mothers. In order for that dream to be true in their own family, more than anyone else, parents in that family need to be brilliant examples for their children to follow. The actions, words, and behaviors of the parents themselves in daily life will directly and greatly affect the process of forming a child's personality and morality.
Many experts on marriage and family have said that do not rush to teach children about family, morality, and personality with sophisticated theories, but show them beautiful actions and cultural behaviors of the rightful father and mother in his family. The intuitive perception for teenagers is extremely important because it is easy for children to follow and follow their parents.
Many parents complain to friends and neighbors that their child is only a little old, but he/she often swears on playing with peers. Unfortunately, it is a direct consequence because even the parent is very rich in the bad language that comes out when talking to friends and neighbors at home. Many parents also complain that their children often compare things with their friends even though they often play together but forget that they often do the same to their neighbors. Even the story of the wife and husband in the family is noisy and violent with each other right in front of the children. That is the example that children are easy to follow.
Family standards contain a series of issues that need to be built and maintained to set an example for children. Not only is the daily word and voice of parents, it is also an example of work, study, self-discipline, law observance, and responsibility to the social community. A harmonious, normative family is the happiness of children. And the good personality of children is formed right in the family that follows them into life when they grow up, and will bring to the social community many good things to look forward to.
Reported by Trieu Phong – Translated by Vi Bao
